I immigrated to the US at the age of 8. I’m Asian. I think I mastered the language at like probably 12 or 13.

I recall often in my life, people always assumed I didn’t speak English for some reason. Like before I had a chance to open my mouth, that question gets asked…

Not sure if it was because I was perhaps being quiet and unaware I was being quiet, so they made an assumption based on that, or if it had to do with how I look.

I kinda always felt a bit uncomfortable.

“Perpetual Foreigner” kind of.

I’m gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and assume it was just maybe I was quiet. But still. A white kid could stay quiet and I doubt the first thing a person assumes is oh he must not speak english.

Um… sorry if this is a weird ask, but those of you who live in immigration countries, have you ever been asked “Do you speak [Language of the country]?” Have you ever made an assumption about someone?

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    1 month ago

    I have BPD; making assumptions and labeling people based on feeling and looks is one of the defining symptoms.

    I respect your personal experience, but also this is not a defining symptom of borderline personality disorder