I hate how relatable this is.

Exactly the situation I’m facing. Despite torrents being a popular choice, it just doesn’t provide an easy way to manage your seeds.

Of course I have found some potential solutions. Seedbox is one of them. There’s also the *arr suite, which is a more local solution that utilises hard links - but im not sure if it’ll be effective if you want to reencode.

The truth has never been more truer.

Also why SpiderMAN shouuldn’'t it be SpiderTEEN?

If it was a woman would you be calling her SpiderWOMAN? - probably not as it is needlessly discriminatory.

Exactly, OP is the writer of their own story and it’s ultimately up to them to decide if it’s going to be problematic.