You know, the guy who’s been having that same angry conversation about the same fucking thing he’s been obsessed with for the last 5 years and demands that you take his view while going on long monologues and then immediately interrupting anyone who tries to get a word in edgewise? And then goes into a weeks-long suicidal despair if you try to leave the conversation? Any way to deal with that?
Don’t.
Just removing obligations, and even going no contact does wonders.
Most people have at least some family they’d like to see during holidays.
and if those family want to see them, they’ll stop inviting the ones supporting nazis
Sure, if that works for you. Given OP’s question though, it’s unlikely that’s what they’re looking for and you’re just pushing your own opinion instead of trying to help them.
I used supporting nazis as an example, sub in whatever other bullshit you want
either way, the proposed solution is valid - stop inviting them
I wasn’t referring to the Nazi part, I was referring to the ‘no contact with entire family’ part
yeah, if the rest of the family wants to see them at those events, they can stop inviting the asshole. otherwise, they can see them at other events
it’s not worth your time to be around assholes, which includes people who invite assholes
obviously this is my opinion, but that’s what OP asked for