It’s not that I don’t have anyone to talk to, it’s that I don’t have anything to talk about with others, and sometimes it happens that it’s impossible to endure that loneliness and I want to socialize so badly, and I don’t want to drink alcohol or watch shows on Netflix to drown out that feeling, because lately it hasn’t helped. I wonder how you deal with it?

  • pseudo@jlai.lu
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    1 天前

    Build a relationship with your neighbour. If you feel lonely, just grab a few fruits or snacks from your pantry and knock on their door saying you bought to much. You’ll win a smile and a nice yet short conversation. Do this a few times and suddenly they will do the same.

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      Yes, I also thought about it, but how embarrassing it is, but I think I will still try to do it, thanks!

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        It is hard but quick. You don’t have to invite yourself to their home for coffee. Give them the snack, and go back quickly. You’ll ask for their name another time.