So my parents take the trash can and put it TOUCHING the table where you put food… in order to clear the table, and sometimes they FORGET TO WASH THEIR HANDS after TOUCHING THE TRASH CAN and then start touching other stuff… sometimes even cooking stuff…
one time I even saw the trash can ON TOP OF THE FUCKING TABLE so its supposedly easier to put the stuff into the teash can…
And even if they wash their hands… they often times (most of the time) DO NOT USE SOAP…
Sometimes they take the trash can and move it around to collect trash WHILE INGREDIENTS ARE LYING AROUND… like what if you accidentally stuff from the trash can just like… hops over the gap and contaminate stuff?
Like dont fucking get the trash can so close to food FFS
Also they sometimes (VERY OFTEN) don’t wash their hands after using the bathroom… I hear them touching the bathroom lids…
Also they put used toilet paper in a trash can… (different trash can in the bathroom)
sometimes I hear mom touch that trash can without washing hands…
My parents tell me I’m being germophobic…
I’m not crazy am I?
Is this just how most people life?
The fuck?
Edit: I’m gonna copy paste one of my comments below, to right here:
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So… okay my house is kinda fucked up…
There’s this issue with the 2nd floor bathtub randomly leaking…
Here’s a picture of what the ceiling looks like right now:
So they had to put a container below where it leaks:
So they sometimes take this container and put it on the table to collect the trash… Like ON THE TABLE…
Ewww bathtub drain water is gonna contaminate it…
Also the table looks like this right now:
Literally like 95% of the stuff on there stays on there like 365 days a year… its been like this since like 2017 as far as I can remember…
Maybe if guests come they clear the table… then aftet they leave shit goes back to the old ways…
Also, regarding the bathroom… nah… I’ll spare you the photo… don’t even want that nasty image in my photo album… just picture a small bin next to the toilet with a bunch of USED toilet paper…
Looking at the pictures, there doesn’t seem to be a habit of cleaning and tidying up. My recommendation would be for you to clean that and tidy it up as best as you can and talk to everybody to try to keep it tidy after. It will be a lot of work, but the difference might be felt by them and they might want to keep it tidy and clean.
The habit must be built over time, try to talk to them to help keeping it tidy, it will not be easy and overnight, bad habits are hard to let go. But if you feel it is not good as it is, take the initiative!
Try to make a morning in saturday or sunday to be the cleaning time, or something like that. First show them how great looking it can be and then schedule the cleaning time so it does not accumulate over time.