Everybody’s got a different way that they like their nipples played with, if they like them played with at all.

One method, that definitely won’t work for everyone but still might be worth a try, is to gently suck one nipple and use your hand on the other at the same time. Typically the ideal way to do this is to cup your lips around the nipple and gently suck it in, proceeding to stimulate it by rubbing the tip of your tongue on the tip of the nipple. For the other nipple, gently grab it with just your thumb and index finger and rub the tips of those fingers up and down each side of the nipple at the same time like you’re turning a knob. This method is especially effective if the nipple is hard.

Other people might instead like to have the nipple pressed in, though this might not be as common. Another way is to simply run your finger around the areola (the rim of the circle around the nipple) without touching the nipple itself. You may also want to consider doing the same with your tongue.

There are way more methods to play with nipples. If you think of another way to do it, leave a comment explaining it if you want. Of course, the best way to find out is to ask your partner what they like, as is the case much of the time.