Assuming he/she/they don’t get obsessed and there are no drawbacks, would you?

  • Em Adespoton@lemmy.ca
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    7 hours ago

    I’ve been married to my crush for over 25 years. I’m happy with what we’ve already got. Even when they don’t like me all that much. There’s usually a reason and it’s me that has to change.

    Imagine living your life with someone who liked you even when they clearly shouldn’t. You’d lose not only the best parts of them but also the best parts of yourself.