My wife and I were trying to conceive and I was having issues with finishing. A lot was in my head… a lot was I was watching too much porn and masturbating so much I was low on sensitivity. Plus there was performance anxiety associated with the purposeful nature of the sex we were having.
So, I stopped. It was tough. And I wasn’t 100% abstinent… but when I jerked, I didn’t watch pornography, and I only did it when I literally had blue balls. But I probably only jerked off two or 3 times in that whole amount of time.
Simply not orgasming for 3 months. My wife thought I was dying.
What made you abstain for so long?
My wife and I were trying to conceive and I was having issues with finishing. A lot was in my head… a lot was I was watching too much porn and masturbating so much I was low on sensitivity. Plus there was performance anxiety associated with the purposeful nature of the sex we were having.
So, I stopped. It was tough. And I wasn’t 100% abstinent… but when I jerked, I didn’t watch pornography, and I only did it when I literally had blue balls. But I probably only jerked off two or 3 times in that whole amount of time.
Great advert for quitting porn ^