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Do you prefer giving or receiving presents?

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Do you prefer giving or receiving presents?

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Casual Conversation @lemm.eeEnglish · 1 month ago

Some people fall firmly into one camp or the other. Which do you prefer?

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Both, but only with my closest friends. And by that I mean people who know me (and I know them) well enough that we know what to gift without wishlists and stuff.
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  I agree with you here. Most gifts I get just get given away, it’s only my bff that gets me what I genuinely like

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