Hi, so been working on this for a week but not really happy with the solutions I find as they seem to be done by induviduals who rely heavily on ai. I got wireguard easy going and can remotly connect which is great but id love to be able to route any internet traffic to and from the wireguard clients to go though another server while filtering my local onsite services. Felt that if i can crack this i dont need to rely on tailscale. The end goal is to have no reliance on tailscale as i am preparing for the eventual enshitification.
Have a look at self hosted netbird on a VPS. Its free and has very little feature restrictions https://netbird.io/
I will tomorrow :) originally i was thinking about it then i got all caught up with wg-easy. Its looked promising when i first looked but it had one or two cavietes that made me decide against it. Will definantly revisit thanks for the suggestion!