30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.
Don’t feel sorry for me, I’m not broken and there’s nothing to fix.
EDIT: it’s not just a lack of a sexual drive, it’s actually being repulsed by sex in addition to that.
Yes sorry, that was patronising, and not how it was meant. It is just so far from what I’ve experienced since I well, discovered my clitoris, it is difficult for me to comprehend.
No offence intended.
Oh also I should add that despite being a 41-year old virgin, I didn’t get wizard powers, because those aren’t handed out to asexual people.