30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.

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      19 hours ago

      A lot of my friends are very into the whole erotica thing. I am far too visual a person to spend a lot of time doing that, personally.

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        I never got into the bodice-ripper novels, but there’s definitely some literotica mixed in with visual porn in my preferences.

        Mostly visual though.

        It’s been nice to see that women who enjoy the written word have an avenue to be as horny as they like without as much judgment lately though haha

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          Agreed and sometimes, the right erotic story can be very very moistening. I remember reading some as a late teen and those images still appear sometimes when I fantasise

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            18 hours ago

            Moistening hahaha. I might copy that phrase!

            Also I can’t lie, knowing you’re a woman makes your posts that much hotter. Thanks! Haha

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              18 hours ago

              And no lie, I’ve kind of always hoped that women looked at my posts, but never had confirmation, and now I do, so…moistening lol. So thank you.

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        17 hours ago

        The conversations you’ve had with your coworkers to even know that make me wanna… come …work there, too!