30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.
Physically? True. Mentally? I need that long to gather enough horny energy.
I’m in the same boat. For me, I just don’t care that much about orgasms anymore. I tend to masturbate when my horny brain kicks in and I start having distracting thoughts.