I’ll add to this, you cannot be second best to your ideal self, firstly because they are an ephemeral and fleeting concept as they are only an idea you have in a given moment, and secondly because by trying to be your ideal self, you will be other people’s perception of it.

Bruh i wish, 2-3 trees or anything of the sort probably won’t help us 😔

Yes, but also, how do we consider aro/ace people, or people who are one but not the other, or gender non-conforming people, or people, or people who are a mix, this is an N-dimensional problem

If and only if you can define “gay” on a one dimensional axis, otherwise it would be like plotting points on an N-dimensional graph, I’m pretty sure “gay” is a multiple dimensions thing.

So sadly we wont be getting a

tree: BinaryTree<Person> = BinaryTree::new_sorted_by(order_gayest);

anytime soon 😒