Here’s two resources that really helped me get the arrs up and running:

https://mariushosting.com/

https://drfrankenstein.co.uk/

Why bother? That person is either dumb as rocks, and you can’t do anything about that, or they’re having a little fun with you.

One trick that worked for me was to treat each encounter with an asshole as a game. They win if they can make you visibly upset. You win by smiling, being courteous in the face of abuse, and being professional because that really makes them mad.

“he and his husband” … “Chick-fil-A”.

Yeah, fuck this clown.