Futility is resistant

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • As. Mexican, I agree with you. The conquistadores weren’t people of the highest caliber, and while the catholic monks were better, their mission was evangelizing at any cost, even if it meant killing people who didn’t want to. Even prehispanic people could be brutal.

    The main difference between colonial Mexico and USA was that slavery wasn’t a thing here, because the evangelized became full-fledged catholics, having a saved soul and all. Something unthinkable for the slavers, who justified their acts because blacks “didn’t have souls”.

    Mexican creoles, the hacendados, found a loophole: Catholics could still be exploited by crushing, multigenerational debt. That’s why we had a century of turmoil after the revolution(s), right after the century of turmoil after our independence from Spain.

    Guess my point is: by the time USA invaded and forcefully took half our country, we didn’t have slavers (the hacendado’s loophole was gone), and definitely didn’t trade humans as things. Your south brought back evils that were gone at the time.




  • Of course not, if I was chatting with you I’d feel like I was bothering you.

    • “How are you?”
    • “Listening to music”
    • “What band?”
    • “It’s on shuffle, I think it’s Metallica”
    • “What song from them? I love Metallica”
    • “IDK, let me check. It’s ‘Sad But True’. I think it’s actually good”.

    —-

    • “What are you up to today?”
    • “Watching TV”
    • “What show?”
    • “It’s Rick and Morty, but don’t tell anyone”
    • “Why?”
    • “I’m afraid others will think I’m an incel or something”

    My mom and mother-in-law are in their 80s, and they’re not great texters but you can tell they’re making an effort, and that counts a lot. It’s not about caring about how well you text, but how a series of dry answers might make your friends feel like a nuisance.

    You need to “groom” others to care about you so they tolerate antisocial behaviors, but not all people can be groomed this way.