Futility is resistant

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  • You have to, even if you don’t do the four steps out loud.

    1. Make an objective observation as it happens (don’t lump it with others in the past)
    2. Express how it makes you feel (if appropriate)
    3. Express your need (so the feeling can be attributed to it, and not your interlocutor)
    4. Make a specific, actionable request that would satisfy your need (which can be denied, it’s not an order)

    You can use non-violent communication even if you only do steps 1 and 4 out loud, as long as you understand 2 and 3.