

Revenge is never worth it.
Never. No matter what ‘it’ is.
Well, if it costs you absolutely nothing… you might think. But here in this case you are talking about a case where it costs you a lot. So: don’t!
And even if you think that it costs you absolutely nothing, then it still costs you your nerve, a whole lot of extra negativity going round and round in your brain, etc. Better detach yourself from all of it.


But isn’t that actually an indication for strong assimilation? You can’t expect everybody to be a language genius :) but on the other end of the spectrum there could be sub-cultures that last for many generations.