Oh yeah that’s generally true, but something like calling a person fat just sounds like someone’s being an asshole and then when they get called out they turn it into your problem for being “too sensitive” because it was “just a joke” – ie. continuing to be an asshole

Where did I say the caretaker has absolutely nothing to do with it?

But yes I guess it’s easier to win arguments when you can just wholesale invent what the other person’s saying out of thin air.

I’ve only ever heard mostly people without kids saying this.

Stupid people without kids. I don’t have 'em but I have a functioning cerebral cortex so I can’t even fathom saying something like that out loud

I was particularly fond of the naming: