

I feel like that’s expected. I would think you’d find it similar with men too.
If your masturbating, them the goal is your own pleasure. When with a partner not, only are there other people to think about, but there is more room for things to not play out perfectly (tiring out, something throwing off the rythmn, etc.), or sometimes your own gratification isnt the focus.









I mean, the orgasm gap is a seperate, although related issue. The main premise of the article is that women orgasm more by themselves than with a partner. I was just saying that statement would be my baseline assumption given the reasons why people masturbate vs engage in sex.
I think the article is good, but seems to mostly just reaffirm previous findings/understanding of human sexuality.