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It’s a compromise.
It supports modern hardware well enough and the environment is good enough.
I do like the cleaned up state of BSD better, but the missing hardware support is pretty much killing that.

Also, all the machines I’m developing for and controlling are running some kind of RT Linux.
So I don’t have that much friction between systems.

Sounds very good, especially with getting rid of palm oil

We’re just not so sweet here and only sometimes get an urge, but that’s not enough for baking…

To only thing I did were hash brownies, but that was quite some time ago… ;⁠-⁠)

Ah, thank you!

Ok, that one’s on me for only mentioning ‘cooking’ ;⁠-⁠)

But honestly, we don’t bake much. I don’t think we baked anything sweet ever.

Well yeah, we’re together since more than 12 years now, so by now she knows me and we’re actually cooking together - usually the one with the idea what to cook takes the lead and the other one assists

So it’s not a major problem, but there is always room to improve :⁠-⁠)

I’ve already tried different ways to ask, but as said, she knows me and can read between the lines ;⁠-⁠)

I’m completely with you regarding ssh/scp
But I don’t know what you mean with mbuff (guess, memory buffer?)
Haven’t found anything with a quick search, but as I often need ssh/scp to work through customer VPNs, everything that makes that faster or more stable is a very welcomed thing :⁠-⁠)

I ask, why she does that this way, so I can learn, and yes, I then tell her, that this is cool and I’m happy to do it that way as well

But asking already is triggering a defense mechanism now… 😞

In general, we are perfectly fine though and very happy with each other
So this is not a real problem, just would like to do it better

Edit: and no, it’s not about “my way”
As I said, for me this is just an external thing I’m doing and isn’t connected to me - like it’s not a personal fault, if I do it wrong
I often ask her for help, because I know she does many things better, where I can’t

We have the saying, together we’re one good monkey

It’s just some things, and I’m not sure how to it better, when I want to tell her about my learning experience/mistakes I’ve already made, and want to show, that’s easier or better that way
And even then, I don’t say, that I’m doing it correct, I only say, I do it that way, because I think it’s easier/better

And I usually ask, why she is doing something her way, because I want to verify my own approach - because I think, I’m doing something wrong or miss a thing, I haven’t thought about

Edit 2: current example:
In our bedroom it’s getting bright quite early and I said, maybe we should think about curtains, because the window blinds don’t really work that good
She said, she is worried about mold on the walls with them, and I said, ah, yeah, you’re right, I haven’t thought about the winter months

So hopefully, you now have a better picture and don’t think of my like an asshole anymore, that doesn’t let any other idea being ok ;⁠-⁠)

Final edit:
I just saw now, that you aren’t the guy I was talking with first
I was hoping for an exchange with another one, that is seemingly in the same shoes like my wife, so I can maybe have an idea how to do this better
That was the original idea, why I started talking
Maybe you have an input yourself, but at the moment, you misinterpreted my situation

Scrolled a bit further and found this intriguing game

https://sopuli.xyz/post/48181032

My partner thinks the same of me 😞

I’m very focused on optimizing things and sometimes I just want to ask, why she is doing things her way, because I think, that I’m maybe missing something.

She always brings up the example, that I even tell her, she washes tomatoes wrong, because she used warm water.
But they are just easier to cut, when they are cold and the skin doesn’t already separate

She takes the critique very personal and now it’s mostly me cooking…
Which is fine, but I’m feeling bad, because I didn’t want to say, that she does something wrong, I see such things as external and we can improve, not attached to the person as a being.

So, when she does something better, I don’t feel bad, I try to adapt her style.
Other way round, it’s always a personal critique it seems

But I’m also very picky with food and obviously not an easy person. So I’m happy, she still sticks with me and I’ll happily cook for her

What else should I do with it than spread it on a bread?
Besides obviously cooking with it, but in a bread, yeah, it’s getting spreaded

This really is infuriating
Because people not showing respect to food - and keep it in its perfect shape and structure, as it’s supposed to be!

And obviously, I’m not diagnosed with anything, only my wife complains, that’s it really hard to cook with me ;⁠-⁠)

Where is China getting their oil from now?
I know, they have quite stocked reserves, but with the strait closed and Russia more and more unable to export, I guess that’s also getting to be a pressure point for China

I usually account for that, by starting to heat up before that

Maybe a thing of preference :⁠-⁠)

Since some months now we have a carbon steel pan and I absolutely love it, because it’s also very thin and adapts quickly to temperature changes

And also has the advantage to clean it quite roughly

Been there as well

And I tried to save a pan, but the fat and dust would never get of it, and I needed to throw it away anyway…

Well, not that I’m build like that, but there are some happy eremits

Those should be able to live their life, although it’s different from “the norm”

In my branche, we usually need to update and test on the weekend and be there at 5-6 in the morning to monitor production start…

I usually like GoLives on Thursday because of the possibility to do actual changes/fixes on the weekend

But… Just different branches

When I worked with mobile apps, Friday updates always were shit, because of exactly the reasons you mention