that makes sense, i will definitely tell her that. i always check in with myself, as im quite self-aware, like i was bi before but realized it didn’t fit and stopped “forcing” myself to like men

thanks!

ohhhh ok, i get it now

oops. just realized it;'s apparently an insult

apparently referring to them wearing manly working clothes, like ones farmers/tractor riders would wear maybe?

heritage language, norwegian, traktorlesbe is “butch”. i am a butch would be “jeg er en traktorlesbe” or “jeg er ei traktorlesbe”.