The phrase you are looking for in English here is dichotomous logic.
Thx :)
Work is a funny thing. When it is gone from your life suddenly, at a young age, the loss of purpose that work brings is felt very acutely. That is the biggest challenge, or it was for me in the 3-5 year range after the crash.
I can understand that. I escaped death by sheer luck but surviving meant I had to quit the job I had and the job I dreamed of doing, as a kid. It took me a few years to get over it… And I never worked with the same intensity after that.
I am a Maker; a crafts person.
So am I. Not only with my hands (I even learned to sew, aged 40 and learned soldering electronics in my early 50s) but with my head too. I see no difference except that we don’t use the same raw materials ;)
In all of these things, the common thread is finding purpose in doing whatever thing. It is a seeking of an internal sense of accomplishment
100%. It’s even more important after the loss of something wed used to be able to do and enjoyed doing so much (not even mentioning we may have been good at doing it). Be it in a car accident like it happened to you, or for any other reason. Feeling we’re doing something that’s worth it that is key. And I know will start to sound like a broken record but imho that sense of accomplishment is also something that is being taken away from younger people. They’re not allowed to feel proud of themselves anymore, which is very… destructive.
I don’t get a sense of satisfaction from politics in general.
I think it would be hard to feel otherwise. no matter where one lives. Here in France, say the whole EU, things are not looking great either. But then I consider our last 500 years of history and realize all the hardship our societies have gone through and how they managed to get out of those better/stronger and I think to myself we may be able to go through what is bound to happen, no matter the incompetency/dishonesty of too many of our politicians.
I often feel frustration and injustice. It is a dangerous feeling for a capable but disabled Maker; to feel such a frustration; to feel like one is not in control of one’s destiny. So I avoid it for now, because worrying about things I cannot change is a waste of energy.
I wish so many more people would think likewise. All that saved energy could then be put to good use. Like making stuff ;)
BTW, 3D is something that I’ve been interested in for years but living my spouse in our small apartment (a choice we made decades ago) makes it very difficult to say the least.
Thx :)
I can understand that. I escaped death by sheer luck but surviving meant I had to quit the job I had and the job I dreamed of doing, as a kid. It took me a few years to get over it… And I never worked with the same intensity after that.
So am I. Not only with my hands (I even learned to sew, aged 40 and learned soldering electronics in my early 50s) but with my head too. I see no difference except that we don’t use the same raw materials ;)
100%. It’s even more important after the loss of something wed used to be able to do and enjoyed doing so much (not even mentioning we may have been good at doing it). Be it in a car accident like it happened to you, or for any other reason. Feeling we’re doing something that’s worth it that is key. And I know will start to sound like a broken record but imho that sense of accomplishment is also something that is being taken away from younger people. They’re not allowed to feel proud of themselves anymore, which is very… destructive.
I think it would be hard to feel otherwise. no matter where one lives. Here in France, say the whole EU, things are not looking great either. But then I consider our last 500 years of history and realize all the hardship our societies have gone through and how they managed to get out of those better/stronger and I think to myself we may be able to go through what is bound to happen, no matter the incompetency/dishonesty of too many of our politicians.
I wish so many more people would think likewise. All that saved energy could then be put to good use. Like making stuff ;)
BTW, 3D is something that I’ve been interested in for years but living my spouse in our small apartment (a choice we made decades ago) makes it very difficult to say the least.