Like, not the big dramatic stuff — I mean the tiny things you barely think about.

I was just reflecting on how many times something small ended up leading to something huge. For example:

When I decided to grab coffee at a different café and randomly mer someone who later became a close friend.

Saying “yes” to a last-minute invite and discovering a hobby that became a huge part of your life. In my example it was bouldering.

Now if I spin this further, if I hadn’t gotten into rock climbing I probably wouldn’t have injured my shoulder a year ago.

Now look at the other examples on this planet. A person who called in sick on 9/11 or missed that flight.

It’s insane. If I wouldn’t be writing this post maybe I would have gotten hit by a car?

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    Replaced my old 90s Peugeot mountain bike with something more modern in 2010 because I thought the four mile commute to work might be fun.

    Then I discovered how much I like long distance riding. Ended up liking it so much I rode the Seattle to Portland yearly event five times.

    Then I ended up riding across the continent from Seattle to central Florida while laid off, just because it seemed like it’d be fun. (It was!) Eventually was commuting 20+ miles to the new job, though I did take the train in the mornings, I’m not that much the masochist.

    Now I’ve got 39 titanium implants because some asshole ran a red light rather than look up from his phone, snapping my left femur, breaking my pelvis, turning my left tibia and fibula into a jigsaw puzzle, and exploding my right femur’s condyle, so that little whim to try commuting by bike didn’t lead to only sunshine and roses.

    On the other hand…because I did have the thought 13 years previously that commuting to work by bike might be fun, I was in such extraordinary shape when the car hit me that even though I’m in my mid 50s, I went from wheelchair to walker to cane in months, and was back on the bike within a year.

    “I should try commuting to work by bike!” Hoo boy, what a ride—if you’ll forgive the pun—that little notion set in motion.

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        Ha! Seattle PD are worthless. Took them five months to even bother contacting me. Then crickets.

        So no, nothing happened, but at least with the Seattle PD I didn’t expect it either.