irelephant@lemmy.world to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 8 days agoIf sexuality is a spectrum, does that mean one person is the gayest?message-squaremessage-square136fedilinkarrow-up1443arrow-down115
arrow-up1428arrow-down1message-squareIf sexuality is a spectrum, does that mean one person is the gayest?irelephant@lemmy.world to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 8 days agomessage-square136fedilink
minus-squareAsidonhopo@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·6 days agoMaybe its gayer to bottom for both men and cis women though, maybe “gold-star” gays are leaving some arguably gay acts still on the table
minus-squareHorsey@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·6 days agoI think sex acts are within your sexuality, not the other way around.
minus-squaresquaresinger@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 days agoThis here. Sexuality denotes what kind of people you are attracted to, not who you have sex with. It’s totally possible to have sex with someone you are not attracted to and who falls outside of your sexuality. Porn actors do that all the time.
Maybe its gayer to bottom for both men and cis women though, maybe “gold-star” gays are leaving some arguably gay acts still on the table
I think sex acts are within your sexuality, not the other way around.
This here. Sexuality denotes what kind of people you are attracted to, not who you have sex with.
It’s totally possible to have sex with someone you are not attracted to and who falls outside of your sexuality. Porn actors do that all the time.