Evil and bad people usually have actual reasons for why they are doing bad things. They aren’t doing bad things just to do them — there is usually something bad that happened in their past, etc

  • jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works
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    4 hours ago

    I grew up in a family with a cycle of abuse.

    I now understand why my dad was as angry and violent as he was. It honestly made me feel sorry for him and made it easier to forgive him. But in no way did it excuse or justify his actions. What he did was still wrong.

    • 鳳凰院 凶真 (Hououin Kyouma)@sh.itjust.works
      2·
      3 hours ago

      Honestly, my mom just go from loving, kind affectionate mother that seems very close to me, holding me close when we’re walking to make sure I’m safe and don’t get hit by a car, then suddenly goes 180 and become a narcissistic tiger matriarch, then it changes back again… Its so fucking confusing. Bipolar? Idk.