I’m not sure if this is the right place but me and my friend group have lately become privacy conscious and wanted to stop using discord and other types of social media, and only log onto self hosted options that only we can access.
we’ve eliminated something like Revolt (now named Stoat due to it missing ideal features and the developers being anti-decentralized (as well as being extremely hostile to the userbase noticably…)
Does anyone have any idea what would be an ideal service to use?
What is “ideal” for you? I use xmpp but some people want stickers and shit and use Matrix instead, it’s much more heavy weight but also has these extra features. There’s also rocket.chat that has all the extra stuff but is not built for federation.