Yep, as a bi guy, I can attest to the efficiency of gay hookup/sex life culture in general.
As a man, you’ll have two very different experiences if you go to a dedicated straight hookup app vs, say, Grindr or Sniffies.
With women, it is a whole process of ensuring that both of you are looking for the other, even if it’s a one night stand. Physical attraction, being charming, non-threatening, tons of requirements. At one point I missed my chance with a girl because she liked being read poetry to after a hookup, and I was apparently reading the wrong poets at the time.
With men? Even if you catfish them, 7-8 out of 10 will still have sex with you. You can literally post 10 year old pics, be 50-70kg heavier and still not a problem - meanwhile I had women call me out for using a roughly year and half old pic, and since I’ve lost weight and shaved off my beard, I looked slightly different…
With apps like Grindr you can quite literally find a sex partner in 5 to 10 minutes. Start a few chats, send the appropriate pictures, agree on a time and who’s bringing what, and you’re good to go.
Its a website for gay hookups. The innovation is that you are placed in a map near your location and then you go thru that map to find others to fuck with nearby or as far as you’d like. Thr government is totally not using it to disappear people of brown and darker color who happen to be gay.
The map is usually super busy on Friday nights but its on and active the entire day. Even Christchurchmass. I bet people do it at church bathroom stalls. But gym bathrooms, changerooms and showers are popular as are adult book stores with video theaters and booths. I pass one of those every day to work.
Yep, as a bi guy, I can attest to the efficiency of gay hookup/sex life culture in general.
As a man, you’ll have two very different experiences if you go to a dedicated straight hookup app vs, say, Grindr or Sniffies.
With women, it is a whole process of ensuring that both of you are looking for the other, even if it’s a one night stand. Physical attraction, being charming, non-threatening, tons of requirements. At one point I missed my chance with a girl because she liked being read poetry to after a hookup, and I was apparently reading the wrong poets at the time.
With men? Even if you catfish them, 7-8 out of 10 will still have sex with you. You can literally post 10 year old pics, be 50-70kg heavier and still not a problem - meanwhile I had women call me out for using a roughly year and half old pic, and since I’ve lost weight and shaved off my beard, I looked slightly different…
With apps like Grindr you can quite literally find a sex partner in 5 to 10 minutes. Start a few chats, send the appropriate pictures, agree on a time and who’s bringing what, and you’re good to go.
“…and who’s bringing what.” I love that line.
Sniffies? 👃
Its a website for gay hookups. The innovation is that you are placed in a map near your location and then you go thru that map to find others to fuck with nearby or as far as you’d like. Thr government is totally not using it to disappear people of brown and darker color who happen to be gay.
The map is usually super busy on Friday nights but its on and active the entire day. Even Christchurchmass. I bet people do it at church bathroom stalls. But gym bathrooms, changerooms and showers are popular as are adult book stores with video theaters and booths. I pass one of those every day to work.