I don’t know firsthand, but many of not most people with abnormally large penises (8+ inches or 20+ centimeters) have stories of sex with people with vaginas that was uncomfortable for at least one partner if not both. Most vaginas have evolved to accommodate penises within two standard deviations of the average, which the vast majority of penises are. If you’re jealous of people with pornstar size penises, it’s usually because porn had conditioned people to overlook the potential problems that such size can cause. It can be too large to fit properly and if you’re not careful, you can injure your partner if you’re as rough as you usually can be with a more normal size. If you’re around average, you’re perfectly fine to fit most vaginas, and people with vaginas that prefer the larger penises are fewer and farther between than you might think.
Monster dong haver here. It is downright disadvantageous. There have been instances where getting it in was completely out of the question, and it killed the relationship. Once someone took one look at it and said “Absolutely not” It can be damaging and uncomfortable, and the majority of partners preferred something more reasonable. Midas curse
If you don’t mind sharing your dimensions? And has it ever been advantage for you or at least a non-issue with a partner?
I’ve never actually checked the dimensions but it’s porn sized. And in the case where its a size match with a partner it’s been really nice, I imagine that’s what it feels like all the time with a standard issue dong?
Well I’ve never had a complaint that it’s too big with my slightly-over-6-incher (16 cm) with a 13cm (5+ inches) circumference. I was told that it was too small by two women who were used to bigger, even though I’m technically above average, so there are certainly people who prefer a size like yours over mine. I used to assume that women who liked my size were more common, but 3/5 of the women I’ve been with have told me my size is perfect for them.
That is what my husband has (like 6" in length and 6" around) and I agree ideal. Big enough to feel big not long enough to have to make modifications or be careful.
Damn, I didn’t know they made ones that were as thick as they are long. Lucky guy.
Lucky me, lol. Yes same circumference as my wrists, though not his.
Hell, I’m not even in the 8+ range you mention and even I’ve had issues with being too large for certain women in certain positions. Even a z-score of 2 (being 2 standard deviations above average (~6.9in / ~17.5cm)) is probably still big enough for problems to arise
Also, for those who are long enough to have issues, you should know that there are “depth limiters” (basically rubber spacer rings) to help mitigate those issues. I haven’t tried any myself, but I’ve heard ohnut brand buffers are good and come in various sizes