Way too many people just want to rush to the climax, and if that’s what you’re into, that’s fine. Just be aware that that’s not always what your partner would be into. Sometimes, it’s a really good idea to just take your time and enjoy being aroused, feeling the excitement build gradually. You’d be surprised what kinds of pleasure you can experience when you’re not working towards getting off, but letting your body give in to the myriad sensations of a slow burn.
I think this is a bad habit guys get into when they start masturbating as teenagers. It definitely was like that for me, jerking off was about getting it done as quickly as possible so you don’t get busted 🤭 I had to intentionally unlearn all that and it took a while for sure.