I think this is a bad habit guys get into when they start masturbating as teenagers. It definitely was like that for me, jerking off was about getting it done as quickly as possible so you don’t get busted 🤭 I had to intentionally unlearn all that and it took a while for sure.
Like 10. Of course it’s a small sample size 🤭 I’m not conducting a survey. Could be a coincidence, I’m just saying with how many stories I’ve heard online about the difficulty of making a woman cum, the women I’ve talked to didn’t really sing that song.
Yeah it’s not my personal experiences here but just discussions I’ve had with women. It wasn’t anything about first dates, just about sex in general and it was a common sentiment they don’t find it difficult achieving an orgasm, contrary to what ive heard so many times on reddit and elsewhere. And I’m not romantically involved with them so I don’t think they had a reason to lie to me but of course you never know 🤭
It’s not exactly “advice” but something you’ll see on Reddit over and over is how difficult it is to make women orgasm and 80% of women don’t cum from penetration and you need to do a,b,c before even you can even hope to make a girl orgasm, I’m sure everyone has seen it. But from the women I’ve talked to, they’ve all seemed to say it’s not difficult at all to make them orgasm and multiple women have told me they cum plenty from just penetration🤷
I agree, the stigma around being a virgin, especially towards men is really pervasive and has many downstream negative effects.
In the past it was more about men using it to measure superiority over other guys but nowadays it’s almost more common to see women use it as an insult and a measure of someone’s worth. As ridiculous as it sounds to say but women also subscribe to the belief that a man who sleeps with girls is seen as good, and someone who doesn’t - bad. If you don’t get laid then it means women can sense your a bad person or something🤭 Otherwise a woman would have slept with you. You can see this with the incel thing, get into an argument online with a woman and your sexual experience is about to be questioned 🤭 So yeah the stigma around virginity and pressuring people into getting laid doesn’t seem to be going anywhere soon.
Yeah circumcision is definitely an interesting topic. If anyone even implied the equivalent be done to girls nowadays, people would absolutely flip at you. Yet it’s done to boys every day and noone blinks. Some even defend it lol, it’s wild.
I mean I’m not gonna do a deep dive on the cultural significance of big dicks and when they became relevant so that I can one up you with facts and logic. I am just speaking my experience and opinions.
Your experience is closer to mine, I didn’t talk much about dick sizes and stuff with my peers.🤭 Also could be we’re from different cultures so that probably makes a difference too. In my experience dicks and their sizes haven’t been relevant in many discussions. Like the place where I first learned about dick based values is when I first watched the American pie type movies where everything is about sex and dicks lol. So maybe it’s an American thing idk.
Could be it was a thing in the 70s already but what I’ve seen with my own eyes though is how cultural norms changed with widespread porn usage, and nowadays you really see dick sizes and cucking and racial stuff everywhere.
Yeah I always found it weird saying stuff like “big dick energy”, just my experience but irl I’ve never had anyone say that or done so myself. Online I’ve certainly seen it. The thing about judging people based on dick size, I just don’t see how that works, you don’t know how big anyone’s dick is, usually 🤭 I understand there are people who care about size for kink purposes and stuff, that’s not a mystery. Maybe I am the outlier, it’s fully possible. I never even measured my dick till I was an adult and a girl online asked me how big is it lol.
The mainstreaming of niche kinks is an interesting point. I do think society in general has been porn brained, if that makes sense. People are having less sex, watching more porn. Cucking is a good example too, I’m not that old but compared to when I was younger stuff like cucking just wasn’t on the forefront of peoples minds? Nowadays if you get into an argument online, one of the go to insults is cuck 🤭
Am I the only one who really doesn’t care about dick sizes? 🤭
I don’t see how’s that relevant to my reply? I didn’t mention anything about “two kinds of women” and I’m not telling women to do anything here 🤭 if you misclicked then no worries.