What were you told about sex that turned out to be wrong? Did you use it? Did you figure it out later or already know it was wrong when they told you?

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    It’s not a ‘two kinds of women’ thing. I couldn’t until after my last kid was born, something shifted with the 10-pounder and not all bad I guess. The first few times it happened it felt like a party trick.

    Also I think the average time guys can last gets longer as they get older, so that helped too, and I learned for me it works better to start with fucking, if I get one from direct stimulation first I’m less likely to get off from the penetration.

    So I guess I want to say DO NOT tell women you know better how their bodies work, and you will be fine. We are all different and also change through time.

    • tantricgooner@fedinsfw.app
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      3 days ago

      I don’t see how’s that relevant to my reply? I didn’t mention anything about “two kinds of women” and I’m not telling women to do anything here 🤭 if you misclicked then no worries.

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        3 days ago

        Just adding context. I do agree with you, don’t think 80% of women have trouble getting off.