What were you told about sex that turned out to be wrong? Did you use it? Did you figure it out later or already know it was wrong when they told you?

  • DarkSirrush@piefed.ca
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    6 days ago

    That one is very subjective - its something around 40% of women can’t get off on penetration alone. Toys or other stimulus during does help quite a bit, again, depending on the woman, her preferences, and what her body reacts to.

    If every woman you have ever slept with came on the first date, without a discussion/discovery phase, a good portion of those women are lying to you.

    • tantricgooner@fedinsfw.app
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      Yeah it’s not my personal experiences here but just discussions I’ve had with women. It wasn’t anything about first dates, just about sex in general and it was a common sentiment they don’t find it difficult achieving an orgasm, contrary to what ive heard so many times on reddit and elsewhere. And I’m not romantically involved with them so I don’t think they had a reason to lie to me but of course you never know 🤭

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          Like 10. Of course it’s a small sample size 🤭 I’m not conducting a survey. Could be a coincidence, I’m just saying with how many stories I’ve heard online about the difficulty of making a woman cum, the women I’ve talked to didn’t really sing that song.

          • PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.worldOPM
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            And did those women tend to have a good amount of sexual partners and/or in happy, committed relationships? Both of those would make it so that they have a better chance to experience orgasms from penetration alone since they’d either have more chances to get a other who knows what he’s doing or one who, after a while of getting to know her body and communicating and listening, would be able to get it done with her.