30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.

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    19 hours ago

    Never would have expected a “30 something woman” to be behind that username.

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      Women’s libido typically peak around 30, so usually when you find hypersexual women they’re in their 30s.

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      I mean my husband and I have been sharing links to cumshot porn with each other for over a decade. But I get it. Not your average 30 something woman’s username 😆

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        Forgive me for asking, but would you be able to explain the appeal ? I’ve always been a little puzzled by this fetish, to be blunt it always seemed like a waste of a creampie x)

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            Very frankly, this statement right here has me thinking about porn or sex addiction. If you don’t think it’s negatively affecting your life (relationships, employment, self-esteem, sexual fulfillment, etc), then you keep doing you (hehe). If you find you’re putting aside other meaningful activities on a regular basis to click the mouse, maybe take a deeper look at that pattern and consider talking with a sex-positive therapist

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        A lot of my friends are very into the whole erotica thing. I am far too visual a person to spend a lot of time doing that, personally.

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          I never got into the bodice-ripper novels, but there’s definitely some literotica mixed in with visual porn in my preferences.

          Mostly visual though.

          It’s been nice to see that women who enjoy the written word have an avenue to be as horny as they like without as much judgment lately though haha

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            Agreed and sometimes, the right erotic story can be very very moistening. I remember reading some as a late teen and those images still appear sometimes when I fantasise

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              Moistening hahaha. I might copy that phrase!

              Also I can’t lie, knowing you’re a woman makes your posts that much hotter. Thanks! Haha

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                And no lie, I’ve kind of always hoped that women looked at my posts, but never had confirmation, and now I do, so…moistening lol. So thank you.

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          The conversations you’ve had with your coworkers to even know that make me wanna… come …work there, too!