30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.


Not only do people vary but individuals vary over time. I’ve been as frequent as you and now several decades later it’s more like a couple of times a month. Hormones play a huge role. Women are often judged for having a libido, and also judged for being frigid, along with every other goddamn thing we do or don’t do in life.
I have not varied much since I discovered masturbation, but it has gone up slightly over the years.
Well I had a hysterectomy (kept the ovaries) and also menopause (so much for the ovaries!) so there’s that.