There are more dad’s cats or dad’s dogs?

There is a huge difference between your best friend and your partner. But maybe I am looking at it from 50 years of life, quite a few partners changed over time, where I have been cheated on or I have cheated on. And also where nobody has cheated on.

So I see things less black and white.

What I have learned is that cheating comes when there is a problem in the relationship, not the other way around. Never.

So first and foremost you look at your relationship then look outside. Or you will only repeat the same cycle that lead partner to cheat with the next partner.

Should you hate your best friend? Yes I guess… Should you hate your partner? Yes I guess. Should you blame them? No. Relationship is two people, and you are one of those two people. So blame also yourself as much as you blame partner, and maybe the third person

But always the fault in cheating lays on BOTH you and partner first and foremost. And trust me: you have 50% of the blame even if partner is the one that cheated. He, or she, of course fully bear the other 50%.

The third person might be a bastard that took advantage of the situation or maybe genuinely fell in love with your partner. But that person has no blame in the cheating

I am talking experience and real life cheating, not theorical hypothesis here.

What I mean is that it’s not your best friend fault. It’s your relationship that has issues to be addressed or your SO would not have looked somewhere else.

So I can be enraged with my best friend, indeed, like with a stranger, but make no sense to address him or her when the fault is not their fault.

When somebody cheats the issue is within the relationship and or the cheating person. The third person is just an external factor, if not your best friend it would have been another person, see, it’s irrelevant.

what? Nope you are wrong. Monday is the first day of the week all over Europe. Blame Americans not christians, at least this time.

The other person is not the problem or the culprit. I would look into my own relationship and confront my SO, be furious, maybe aggressive (but not violent, that I would never be), maybe crying.

The other person it’s a distraction, it your SO and yourself you need to focus on.

I assume that’s referring to flawlessly as not working, in those cases. Intentionally.

I am moving from GitHub to codeberg.

But if you prefer to self host, just install forjeio on your turf.

How safe is this

I think Plesk is still self-hosting. Nowhere it says that self host MUST be open source or in general, free stuff. Self hosting is host on your premises, or actually host yourself (hosting on a VPS IMHO is still selfhost).

As for Plex, i discarded it from the day 0 and went with Jellyfin directly, never looked back and i am 100% happy with my choice. I would NOT consider something like Plex (with it’s enshittification, pricing and overall shady approaches in general) as viable for my setup. But, it’s still self-host since you host your media and your service.

Cool!

Thank you!

Low effort post? Does it cost so much to at least copy paste the GitHub description?

You own an iphone… So I guess that would not have been thought before time travel…

I like and use gimp (well… Kind of moved to Krita but still use gimp sometimes) but of course are you referring to the unfinished state or the complexity?

Gimp does one thing only, i don’t recall it can act as a code editor or a browser or a file manager etc etc … It is a complex thing it does, but the problem underlying it tries to solve is complex.

Over-complexity is related to the complexity of the problem to solve, not to the complexity of the tool that you use.

So a simple solution to a complex problem is also a complex solution in itself…

You would have a useless object that within a day is permanently discharged and turned off. Maybe you bring also a charger and luckily find a stable enough power source that it doesn’t burn in a few days.

Still, an iphone is a useless device without network of any kind.

Maybe you could impress somebody with the calculator (those existed already but where massive mechanical devices unable to do divisions without a math degree kind of).

My guess nobody would be quite interested. Probably the plastic and aluminum would be the most interesting technology for the time.

Love Unix principle: do one thing and do it right.

So I look for quite stable and simple software rather than huge over complex monsters that are never really finished or ready (yes IBM and Microsoft I look at you)

Yes this is exactly the point behind LazyNVR… reduce power usage of the server, and CPU, since the load can already be supported by the camera itself.

If the camera can only record on local storage, you can still use LazyNVR but you would need to manually dump the SD card content to the server… Ftp or any other network transfer is much more practical tough

Not the ones I have … Maybe they are just too old (3-6 years) but they live separated from internet. So I am pretty sure of that.

Well, they probably don’t do face detection at all actually …

I only have one reolink and it’s cabled, PoE. So can’t help you… But I can say reolink is the worst hardware quality but better software quality than dahua in my experience … My reolink did factory reset for over one year every time it rained… Then stopped all by itself … No idea why

Never had imou or tapo. But if they provide at least an url for live stills you can athe very least display them in the web GUI bot not collect recordings…