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Cake day: August 3rd, 2023

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  • Conservatives have always been regressive, period. Their entire philosophy emerged as a reaction to the “excesses” of the French Revolution. The forward “movement” (if you want to call it that) was from the “divine right of kings” to the “divine right of lords” (chosen by the market).

    To quote the infinitely quotable (Wilhout, from the top rope…with a fucking blog comment):

    Conservatism consists of exactly one proposition, to wit: There must be in-groups whom the law protects but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect.

    The whole “left vs right” divide itself originates from this:

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Left–right_political_spectrum

    I understand the desire to take the positive aspects of a word, apply them to your political stance, and pretend that you’re part of a movement. But it isn’t true. It reminds me of when lefties (often in a USA centric thread) describe themselves as “left libertarians”. All this crap does is confuse people and make you sound like a pedant.

    If you think this is what conservative means and that’s what your politics are, you’re basically just politically homeless…and have been since you started calling yourself that.







  • Everyone was kind of dumb, they only talked about other people they knew, and told drunken stories about being drunk before- it was boring.

    Yeah, somehow that’s a thing, “…and we got so wasted!”. Being somewhat of a lush myself, I am sitting there drinking heavily listening to these stories and want to blurt out, “I’m getting wasted right now just to deal with having to listen to this.”

    I’ve found that nonsexual friendships between the sexes aren’t usually possible in practice. It’s not because it’s necessarily the case that all friendships are based upon sex, but instead because someone somewhere (most often outside the relationship) will eventually believe that, and it will lead to drama that degrades or ends the underlying friendship.


  • It’s really been strange to me that my whole life people have insisted that it isn’t possible for men and women to be friends and that every relationship there has to be either sexual or sexually motivated.

    I’m a bit of an odd ball in that I am straight, male, cisgendered and have basically always felt better hanging around girls since I was a child. However, I never felt like I could just have girls and women friends though because inevitably it would be implied from some direction that I actually just wanted them sexually.

    I’ve also met very few guys that weren’t into talking about sex and women as soon as there were no women around, and I’m just plain uninterested in talking about sex with other guys.

    So, instead now I’m married and I basically talk to no one.




  • Link me to your wonderful social media utopia that isn’t an echo chamber.

    Facebook - Echo chamber, actively manipulated to make you be the most pissed off and spend the most time on it as possible and click on customized ads

    Instagram - Echo chamber, specifically tuned to make you feel jealous of others and buy shit covered in the ads

    Nextdoor - Basically Facebook but with a “locals only” aesthetic

    LinkedIn - An echo chamber tuned for people who nod vigorously to everything the CEO says in the “all-hands” meeting

    Threads - Echo chamber, tuned toward people to click on ads just like other Meta properties

    YouTube - Practically a right-wing echo chamber, you can watch a video about cute puppies and with no watch history turned on you’ll be on Infowars-like content within 2 degrees of Kevin Bacon (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Six_Degrees_of_Kevin_Bacon)

    Twitter (I’ll continue to have this as my only deadname) - A right-wing echo chamber full of bots including “MechaHitler”

    Bluesky - An echo chamber similar to Twitter before it was musked up

    Mastodon - A left-wing echo chamber (similarly to Lemmy it’s decentralized, and similarly to Lemmy it is somewhat moderated in a way that rids you of most right-wing / hitler-focused media)

    Truth social - I mean, obviously a right-wing echo chamber

    Reddit - An algorithmically tweaked astroturf echo chamber full of bots and serving up a daily AI training ground that gets more right-wing as time passes

    Hacker news - A libertarian-leaning tech-literate echo chamber

    TikTok - An algorithmically tweaked, purposefully addictive echo chamber that shows you what you want to see so you volunteer your money and your data

    Shall I go on?

    I don’t just allow “both sides” to come into my living room and have a debate with me about whether or not trans people should be able to exist in peace or whether or not minorities should be exterminated. I similarly don’t waste time “debating” them on social media or reading their posts. Tolerance of intolerant people just so we can “cover both sides” isn’t a high priority of mine on social media, and it’s also not available anywhere anyway.