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Cake day: June 23rd, 2024

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  • Abandoning your family is difficult, even if just for economic reasons. Especially if you live in a country like the US that doesn’t exactly have good social benefits for people down on their luck (IDK where you actually live).

    Is there any way you could at least put some distance between you and your family in the near future? Some of my relationships with family members improved a lot after a couple of years with relatively low contact (I attended university in a different part of my country).

    Re: Shame culture, I haven’t experienced anything like that here in Germany. Some families are definitely more demanding than mine, but I think even those are usually more constructive and less venomous than yours.