When they think the other must but faultless/flawless.
My spouse and I have been together for almost 30 years and counting. And neither of us are perfect, nor saint. I even less.
What screams ‘this couple could last’ to us is when we see people using the same method we use to face issues. Discussing the issues as quickly it arises instead of blaming and being judgmental. And that can include cheating.
In short it’s keeping in mind we both can be (and probably are more often than we think) assholes or absolute morons. And that shit can happen n,o matter how hard we try.
I don’t know. My husband and I have been together for 20+ years. I feel that judging other people makes us appreciate that we’re not awful. We’re weird but on a way we both like. So many people are just not good people. If you like each other and can have fun with each others friends and family, youre on a good start. If you can enjoy them without.ylir SO company, you’re among your people…of it’s better because they are therz well then everything is.
When they think the other must but faultless/flawless.
My spouse and I have been together for almost 30 years and counting. And neither of us are perfect, nor saint. I even less.
What screams ‘this couple could last’ to us is when we see people using the same method we use to face issues. Discussing the issues as quickly it arises instead of blaming and being judgmental. And that can include cheating.
In short it’s keeping in mind we both can be (and probably are more often than we think) assholes or absolute morons. And that shit can happen n,o matter how hard we try.
I don’t know. My husband and I have been together for 20+ years. I feel that judging other people makes us appreciate that we’re not awful. We’re weird but on a way we both like. So many people are just not good people. If you like each other and can have fun with each others friends and family, youre on a good start. If you can enjoy them without.ylir SO company, you’re among your people…of it’s better because they are therz well then everything is.