If a couple has been dating for less than one year, and I see them bicker or fight, I think they should break up. Not because they shouldn’t bicker or fight. But because I shouldn’t be seeing it. You shouldn’t be letting your personal squabbles spill out into the nice potluck the rest of us are having. If I see this happen, I assume that either (1) the couple has some major incompatibility that is so contentious that it can’t help but spill out in inappropriate moments or (2) one or both of the couple lacks the maturity to discuss their personal problems in private like adults.
If a couple has been dating for less than one year, and I see them bicker or fight, I think they should break up. Not because they shouldn’t bicker or fight. But because I shouldn’t be seeing it. You shouldn’t be letting your personal squabbles spill out into the nice potluck the rest of us are having. If I see this happen, I assume that either (1) the couple has some major incompatibility that is so contentious that it can’t help but spill out in inappropriate moments or (2) one or both of the couple lacks the maturity to discuss their personal problems in private like adults.