To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

Growing up in the 90’s, the “minimum acceptable” tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

What do you usually do?

  • ShimitarA
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    8 hours ago

    When I have been in the us I used to tip around 15%. Accepted that as a weirdness of the us.

    On my home country tipping is just weird and unheard of, so 0%.

    Edit: last time I was in the us was like 15 years ago.

  • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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    10 hours ago

    I’m almost always a 25%. I used to work in the industry in a previous lifetime, and tips were what kept me afloat. Now I’m an overpaid professional, and have no qualm paying it forward.

    The only situations I will tip much less is if:

    • Service was just absolutely fucking abysmal due to very clear negligence.
    • It’s one of these new hipster restaurants that keep popping up, where you order and pay for your food upfront and are expected to tip then as well, without knowing how service will be. I’m not talking about food carts or kiosks either, these are actual restaurants. I hate the expectation that I should just pay an extra premium without even having a chance to evaluate the experience.
  • otp@sh.itjust.works
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    14 hours ago

    I was going to answer, but then you clarified on the body of your post that you only wanted answers from people in the US, lol

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    12 hours ago

    15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I’ll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

    • makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml
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      Don’t pay it. In Australia they’re trying, and I remind them they get paid well, get paid overtime, get paid a pension, and get paid more to take holidays. After being paid all that, why is the shitty machine prompting a tip?

  • MrVilliam@lemm.ee
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    10 hours ago

    Usually 20-25% unless the service is inexcusably bad (like 1-5% of the time, and even then I’ll tip like 15%). I’ll typically approximate 20% and round up to the nearest dollar, then maybe add a dollar or two. I remember 15% being standard with it being acceptable to go down to 10 or up to 20; 18% was sorta my standard at the time, and I’d only go as low as 15%. I’ve only ever asked to speak to a manager three times that I can remember, and both times were due to what the kitchen sent out to me. I still tipped fully to the server since it wasn’t their fault. I was a chef for years, so I know how stressful it gets back there, but there’s still no excuse for the dishes I’ve sent back. There’s usually an offer to cook something else, but if I’m sending food back it’s because I don’t trust the kitchen to send out food that won’t give me food poisoning.

    Tipped minimum wage here (and therefore all tipped wage) is $2.17/hour. I believe that these businesses should be forced to pay proper wages, but stiffing your server doesn’t achieve that. These people are on their feet running around for hours and they usually don’t have enough support or leadership to do their job as well as they’d like to, and then they’re too exhausted and broke to study or work to break into another industry. We’re gonna have a lot of 30-50 year old servers living paycheck to paycheck until their knees and back give out. I’m down with tipping an extra couple bucks so they can get some Dr Scholl’s.

  • untorquer@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    If i was still there I’d still tip 20% cash preferred. (Card/electronic transactions are more often stolen by management)

  • GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml
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    8 hours ago

    0%. We do not have a tipping culture, nor will I ever move in the direction of us having one.

    EDIT: I’m not in the U.S so my answer does not apply

  • paequ2@lemmy.today
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    14 hours ago

    but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

    That seems pretty unusual to me.

    I normally tip 20%.

  • gm0n3y@lemm.ee
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    Typically 20-25 at a restaurant. I’m not a fan of tipping for transactions where I’m not served. I only tip when someone does something.

  • Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
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    14 hours ago

    Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee’s market value are between the employee and their employer. I don’t believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees’ wages.

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      9 hours ago

      Your choice not to tip will make no difference to the company, but every difference to a person who suffers through customer service for a living.

      “I don’t want to subsidize a company” is just you inventing a convenient way to justify what is essentially theft. Why stop at not tipping? You could probably get away with stealing IDK, playground equipment too.

    • FromPieces@lemmygrad.ml
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      13 hours ago

      While your argument is sound, a server can’t feed their children or care for disabled parents with sound arguments and principled stances.

  • Zahille7@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    Growing up, and even after working in foodservice, I was always told to tip at least 20% (almost) regardless of service.

    There’s been maybe two times I didn’t tip 20% and the lower tip was definitely earned.