We pretty much always need an outside force to get us to stop.
Sunk cost fallacy
Being aware of it can help. Ask yourself. “Cut my losses or risk more with unlikely win?”.
Buddhists call this samsara or samskara. Our habits (whether good or bad) are the most difficult thing to break and breaking these cycles is also the most important skill to acquire
@Darcranium @Krauerking@lemy.lol the two are different words, LOL
The terms are used almost interchangeably in Hindi. And used to describe something similar in Buddhism. I wonder why there’s so much overlap
So, how long have you been in the shower? Have you left yet?
Oh shoot. I knew I forgot to do something
Also, starting.
That’s how inertia be. We want to keep things the way they are, unless we have no other choice.
Also, continuing.
I’m tired, boss.
Round out the set with refraining
Yeah, as I kept showering that though came up too. We struggle with physics, we need help getting moving and then stopping again. We are a bunch of bouncy balls.
That’s physically accurate tho. Anything with mass needs external force applied to change their state. Our minds are built of physical matter, so it makes sense they behave like physical matter.
Can’t stop, won’t stop baby.
Newton’s first law applies to virtually any dynamic system, including the actions and thoughts of organisms.
I see this every day. I try to stop and just take in the moment. But I can’t. I can’t stop. I can’t take in the moment. And it was only for a moment, now it’s gone. And now that it’s gone, I can’t stop thinking about it. I try to stop. I can’t stop stopping. But I also can’t not stop stopping. It’s my struggle. It’s what I struggle with the most. Stopping.
You also started thinking about it, you started trying, and with some practice you’ll learn how to stop when you need to. It’s not about stopping, it’s about… a bunch of complex stuff because nothing in our brains has a simple straightforward explanation as much as we like to pretend it does.
god damn! that’s a really nice grill…
Equally true of every animal? Ever try to get a mole to stop digging?
Yeah, true. Or even worse, stopping a dog from eating something it shouldn’t?
Having seen how a ton of folks in my city drive, can confirm.
Walking to the supermarket today I saw a guy on a scooter who was using the soles of his flip-flops as brakes … perhaps like him, they have no brakes?
LOL
I can’t stop stopping. Help me!
Never stop never stopping.
As a kid my dad had a game called gnome, where you controlled a mech. You could spam the stop button for the robot lady voice to say stop stop stop stop stop stopping.
Respect goes a long way. Too many people try to “help” people stop something without respecting or understanding them. And that makes wars.
Respect and TCB.
I dunno, inner forces are extremely effective. Depression is even harder to overcome than inertia.
“stop being happy!” -depression
Mmm I would say that depression by nature is a suppressed ability to gain inertia. It makes it hard to get the dopamine response started to a point where you get the feedback loop.
And also to an extreme it comes from a place of not being able to imagine stopping the life you live so it is easier to imagine a stop of everything.
Until you realise it only takes one decision and we have stopped doing everything we wanted to stop.
