What were you told about sex that turned out to be wrong? Did you use it? Did you figure it out later or already know it was wrong when they told you?
What were you told about sex that turned out to be wrong? Did you use it? Did you figure it out later or already know it was wrong when they told you?
I agree, the stigma around being a virgin, especially towards men is really pervasive and has many downstream negative effects.
In the past it was more about men using it to measure superiority over other guys but nowadays it’s almost more common to see women use it as an insult and a measure of someone’s worth. As ridiculous as it sounds to say but women also subscribe to the belief that a man who sleeps with girls is seen as good, and someone who doesn’t - bad. If you don’t get laid then it means women can sense your a bad person or something🤭 Otherwise a woman would have slept with you. You can see this with the incel thing, get into an argument online with a woman and your sexual experience is about to be questioned 🤭 So yeah the stigma around virginity and pressuring people into getting laid doesn’t seem to be going anywhere soon.