I (a man with a penis) recently had my first time penetrating a vagina. I found it quite underwhelming, the sensations were there, I didn’t really struggle to orgasm (though the only position were I was able to get there was missionary where I control everything), but still I was disappointed by the sensations being 10 times weaker than what I feel by myself with a toy.
This didn’t make it a bad experience on the contrary. But the most fun part for me clearly was not the stimulation but rather the feeling of caressing her skin and her desire for me.
Am I the only one having such an experience?
Are we talking fleshlight or the vibrating kinds? Because obviously a vagina doesn’t vibrate so when you’ve conditioned yourself to that feeling, it’s no surprise you’d be disappointing.
The backdoor tends to be tighter and give a more intense feeling in my experience though.
Yup that’s pretty much the most enjoyable part for most people I think.
We’re talking a non vibrating toy ( the Ben by passage du desir ). I have a vibrating one but I don’t like it that much because it’s too rigid.
Yeah maybe I’ll try that at somepoint, but this wasn’t really planned we didn’t have lube or anything to clean, I’m lucky I thought about always having condoms with me 😅. And I’m not sure most women enjoy this so 🤷
Thank you for the confirmation.
Yeah, I feel like sex isn’t the the main dish, the main dish are the cuddles and the sex is just the spice to make it even more fun.