I (a man with a penis) recently had my first time penetrating a vagina. I found it quite underwhelming, the sensations were there, I didn’t really struggle to orgasm (though the only position were I was able to get there was missionary where I control everything), but still I was disappointed by the sensations being 10 times weaker than what I feel by myself with a toy.

This didn’t make it a bad experience on the contrary. But the most fun part for me clearly was not the stimulation but rather the feeling of caressing her skin and her desire for me.

Am I the only one having such an experience?

  • arin@lemmy.world
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    13 days ago

    Same with me, but that’s because i had over a decade experience with my hand before sex.

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      13 days ago

      Yeah that’s pretty much my case too. Only a couple of month ago did I stop using just my hand (+lube) and started using a toy (similar to a fleshlight)