I (a man with a penis) recently had my first time penetrating a vagina. I found it quite underwhelming, the sensations were there, I didn’t really struggle to orgasm (though the only position were I was able to get there was missionary where I control everything), but still I was disappointed by the sensations being 10 times weaker than what I feel by myself with a toy.
This didn’t make it a bad experience on the contrary. But the most fun part for me clearly was not the stimulation but rather the feeling of caressing her skin and her desire for me.
Am I the only one having such an experience?
Was it because she was well lubricated? That’s considered a good sign. You’re probably used to more friction from sources that don’t self lubricate.
As for only finishing when you’re in control, I don’t think that’s abnormal especially when you’re just getting to know someone. With more experience you’ll learn each other’s bodies.
Maybe. We didn’t use lube. She was most certainly turned-on so yes probably quite lubricated as far as natural lubrication can go.
Sadly this will be just a one night stand. While we’ll meet each other again because we know the same people, she made it clear she’s not interested in a recurring relationship with me 😔