I (a man with a penis) recently had my first time penetrating a vagina. I found it quite underwhelming, the sensations were there, I didn’t really struggle to orgasm (though the only position were I was able to get there was missionary where I control everything), but still I was disappointed by the sensations being 10 times weaker than what I feel by myself with a toy.
This didn’t make it a bad experience on the contrary. But the most fun part for me clearly was not the stimulation but rather the feeling of caressing her skin and her desire for me.
Am I the only one having such an experience?
Looking at this reddit post it seems to suggest having the woman orgasm before penetration is not the best idea with all women.
As we said, everyone is different and enjoys different things, we’re just giving you tips based on biological data and stats as well as our personal experiences, so you have a base understanding of what might be the most probable to work, but of course there is no universal answer !