If someone wishes you a painful form of terminal cancer how would you feel?

    • AlvinTheChipmunk@sopuli.xyzOP
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      2 hours ago

      Nope, I’m simply respecting your right to free speech. You have the right to say and think, ‘Billionaires deserve to die.’ That’s your First Amendment right, and I respect your right to think it. However, at the exact same time, I 100% also have the right to say, ‘You deserve cancer. I hope your kids get cancer, and if your 5-year-old son dies in a school shooting, he deserves it.’

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        Friend, just be kind and respectful. Whether it’s a teenager asking if you want fries with that, a retail worker helping ring up your purchases or a service tech fixing something for you, having good manners, not actively wasting their time or creating headaches for them, and having a bit of patience when we’re both frustrated with a system that doesn’t make it easy for you or us is a delight. Do your best to raise your kids to do the same, and remember it could just as easily be them on the receiving end. Most people are just fine. You can’t fix other people. You can make it socially costly to be an asshole, so any chance you get, do so.

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          I already do that, but sometimes I wonder if I could do just a little more to help make up for all the assholes. And myself for the days when I’m the asshole.

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            Don’t make the same dumbass joke we’ve heard a million times “ope, didn’t scan, must be free”, other than that, just don’t lose your patience with someone who legitimately cannot defend themselves without getting fired

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            Don’t beat yourself up over being human. We all have our limits of what we can and can’t do, and a customer can only do so much. Stand up for labor, support unions whenever you can, I know that’s harder than it used to be, use your vote, and your voice when you’re able to demand better for all of us. Those are what you can do as a citizen. I know it’s abstract, I know they aren’t perfect solutions, but it’s better than where things are. And maybe we can all work on being better neighbours too. Remember, the most you can do is always working with others as a community.

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          If this is what you’re like in real life, i feel like the world would be better without you. I hope you someday improve your behaviour.

          • AlvinTheChipmunk@sopuli.xyzOP
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            I’m simply respecting your right to free speech. You have the right to say and think, ‘Billionaires deserve to die.’ That’s your First Amendment right, and I respect your right to think it. However, at the exact same time, I 100% also have the right to say, ‘You deserve cancer. I hope your kids get cancer, and if your 5-year-old son dies in a school shooting, he deserves it.’

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              You have a right to say it, but that doesn’t mean you should say it. And I never said billionaires deserved to die. Like a lot of people in this thread, I just want their wealth redistributed. Telling people their kids deserve to die is dickish behaviour and you ought to stop. You aren’t legally required to stop, but you ought to. People have a right to disassociate with you for this behaviour and they probably should. Thank you for respecting my right to free speech, but doing so doesn’t require you to say dickish things to people

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          5 hours ago

          Ah, the “I had to suffer, so everyone else does too” mentality. Now I see why they wished the worst on you.

            • Em Adespoton@lemmy.ca
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              Yes, and it’s everyone else’s legal right to both tell you what they think of what you said, and refuse to associate with you.

              Laws are in place because of precedent. New precedent is set every day.

              Society makes laws, but is greater than its laws. Laws don’t define society, they help enforce it.

              • AlvinTheChipmunk@sopuli.xyzOP
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                I’m simply respecting your right to free speech. You have the right to say and think, ‘Billionaires deserve to die.’ That’s your First Amendment right, and I respect your right to think it. However, at the exact same time, I 100% also have the right to say, ‘You deserve cancer. I hope your kids get cancer, and if your 5-year-old son dies in a school shooting, he deserves it.’

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                  We already established that. You have the right to express your opinion. That doesn’t mean there are no consequences to doing so.

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              You’re legally allowed to, but that doesn’t mean you should. I’m legally allowed to eat a whole bag of sugar as fast as I can

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              Yep, and it’s everyone else’s right to wish it right back at you. I almost wish I believed in hell, because the idea of people who think like that slow-roasting for eternity is comforting. Unfortunately, the cosmos doesn’t usually do justice. That’s a human affectation. May you always find justice.

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    So what account of yours got banned, that you had to make another one and say shit within less than a day of creating it?

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      I highly suspect this is grimreaper, pixelnomad, vader, and mightymouse. A known sociopath on Lemmy

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          There’s been a bunch of accounts that all ask the same weird questions, that all seem blurrily related in a bad way. The names mentioned above are some of the ones that are quite definitely from the same person/bot.

          They are also almost constantly not real questions, but statements said in a fake interrogative manner.

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    6 hours ago

    I don’t care. Wishes and prayers don’t come true, so the people saying that to me can eat a dick and keep hoping.

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    5 hours ago

    The same.

    Or grab my chainsaw and quarter them. Who needs cancer when you got a chainsaw?