• SkyezOpen@lemmy.world
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    What was expected here? Take all the shit out of the fridge, put the pizza box in the bottom, then stack it all on top again to make it look neat? Maybe I’m a slob but I see no world where this isn’t the play unless there’s only like 2 slices that can fit in tupperware or a bag.

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    9 hours ago

    Amateur if it’s not falling out when you open the door are you even trying

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    Omg a clutterbug raised a clutter bug?!?!

    Peanut butter, syrup don’t need to be refrigerated. Pizza sauce left overs saved, but it’ll be trash b4 you make another pizza. I could go on, but i don’t care enough

    Edit- maybe I care enough?

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      I used to not refrigerate my syrup. However, that changed when I found a scoby growing in it one day. And some people refrigerate natural peanut butter so that the oil doesn’t separate.

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        Crazy take on my party: syrup is pure sugar. You dont need to keep it that long. Have a taste and throw it out quickly.

        It has no health benefits, besides gluttonous non-nutritional calories. A dandelion from the sidewalk is healthier for you.

        Itll literally kill your boner and take your limbs given time.

        But sometimes I just like to argue

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      Peanut butter and syrup should need refrigerating - only the preservative laden crap is shelf stable (which admittedly, is what is pictured).

      Pizza sauce freezes very well in silicone cubes.

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      Syrup does.
      Evwn the label says to do it after opening.

      Else it could develoo mold. And maple syrup is expensive in Europe.

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    I can still hear my Dad.

    Short shit on the short shit shelf

    Tall shit on the tall shit shelf

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    Incredible parenting strategy to post your grievances toward her online at her expense instead of communicating openly with her about it.

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    Haven’t we all been there? Not enough room for the box, you’re tired and probably going to eat it tomorrow anyway.

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      Yeah, if I already settled for a shitty takeout pizza I’m not having a good mental health day. That shit is getting jammed wherever it fits, probably 2 minutes before I pass out on the couch drunk. I’ll deal with it in the morning.

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    Why are you ragging on your daughter? It’s your fault she doesn’t know how to load a dishwasher, and this is a legit pizza strategy. It and the fruit are on top probably because they needed put away quickly. Why are you posting her business on the Internet? If you’re infuriated why didn’t you reach her how to load a dishwasher? If this is her house, why is any of this your business?

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      I am totally fucking here for this comment.

      Right on the fucking button.

      Either step up and be the fucking parent you’ve failed to be thus far, or back the fuck up, wind your neck in, and shut the fuck up.

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    The only thing I see wrong here is that she is eating dominos.

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      Tbf their large carry out 7.99 deal is one of the best price points in fast food rn sadly

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            I usually get Taco Bell on those days.

            My area is so lousy with amazing, authentic pizza places, that it’s somehow insulting to myself to even consider eating chain pizza.

            I will say that the price of pizza has skyrocketed over the past ten years or so, though. It’s easily 2-3x as much as it used to be.

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        People seem to have taken this as a slight against op, but I’m gonna be real with you, for me it’s not that deep. Better to be shoved in sideways than not put in the fridge at all.

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          I tell my wife all the time: if you can at least put it in the fridge, then it won’t go bad. If I don’t like where you put it, I can always reorganize later. I can’t un-spoil food.

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          Technically possible. Technically. Without much child rape, even!

          The ipad released 2010. Let’s say the daughter was 3 years old at that point, they’d be 19 today. Minus 2.5 years to pump out 3 kids, they could have started at 17. Which is not unbelievable in some areas.

          Yes, the ipad has been around long enough that generations raised on it could be parents now. If I made you feel old, you’re welcome.

          Edit: OK, so they had 3 kids 2 years ago. Maybe a teeny bit of Epstein then.

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      Exactly. Parents who complain about their kids behavior…like, did you drop them off with a pack of wolves or did you actually pay attention to them and take time out for them to teach them as opposed to yelling, dictating and insulting them?

      Oh wait, maybe that’s just how I was brought up.

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        Yeah, my parents are still wondering “where did we go wrong,” as if they’re surprised I turned out to be worthless…

        Like, I fought like hell to thrive despite how they raised me, and in the end it came crashing down around me because the psychological conditioning was just too deep set.

        And it didn’t help that every time I started to get on my feet, they dragged me back down cause I guess it made them feel bad when they saw me start to do well any time I managed to cut them off temporarily. Buy they’d wriggle their way back into my life and start sabotaging everything all over again by talking down to me in strategic ways designed to trigger my ancient complexes and insecurities like only they know how to do…

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          hey there, sounds like my family. the ONLY thing that allowed me to start healing was a hard cutoff (dad) and low contact (mom). it is different for everyone, but if it is the right thing for you, do it. they made choices while parenting that will have natural consequences for everyone involved

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          I know it’s just words, but try like hell to make a life despite them. I know that with the state of things right now that’s crazy hard to do.

          My mom actually got jealous when I finally got a nicer vehicle than she and my dad had. I drove clunkers my entire life until the last 8-9 years and I was proud of my new nice vehicle and she couldn’t even be happy for me. All she could see is that her gay child who escaped the evangelical upbringing was actually living better than she and my father.

          The toxicity runs deep in some parents.

          Also, you’re not worthless!

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            I can’t, it’s too late for that. The struggle and psychological pressure led to too many mental breakdowns, and I’ve embarrassed myself in public too many times to step outside anymore. I used to live independently but a series of trips to the mental hospital and a spiral of crushing debt led me squarely back into their basement where things were still turbulent for a couple years and I made a series of attempts to move out on my own again but I’m just so psychologically broken at this point that I can’t pull off the most basic things.

            And yeah, they definitely had that evangelical strain of conservative christianity. It’s how I was raised and that did a hell of a lot of damage too, even completely aside from the constant put-downs speckled with unrealistically high expectations.

            Being sheltered and homeschooled and taught the bible from a baptist perspective and going to a church youth group where I met my abuser and was told to look up to him as a leader didn’t help much either. By the time I was an adult I couldn’t even interact with people. I spent all those years when most people are learning how to socialize and be normal, instead I was learning the opposite. People picked up on that easily and so I was ostracized and demeaned even more, cause people love ganging up on an easy target.

            By the time I started deprogramming from religion it still took me several years to complete the process, and that finally leaves me at square one, albeit without the decades of social skills that most people have cultivated by my age. And in addition I have all the baggage of every foolish thing I’ve said or done along the way.

            There’s really no path forward for me. I’m a hikikomori at this point and I’m just barely starting to accept that fate with resignation.

            • Da Cap’n@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              By any chance, are you neurodivergent or suspect you may be? Before I learned that I was my life made no sense, and I stayed hella depressed. It wasn’t until I was diagnosed as autistic that my life slowly started making more sense. That doesn’t excuse or dismiss the damage caused by your parents, but it does provide a new reframing of things.

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                Almost certainly. But I never got screened as a kid even when I begged to find out what’s wrong with me, because back then an autism diagnosis would have brought shame on the family or whatever, so I just got yelled at and told to stop asking…

                And yes, my life does make a lot more sense when I consider that I might be on the spectrum, but that’s not enough to convince people to understand or be accommodating. Hell, even if I had a diagnosis, most people still wouldn’t understand or be accommodating.

                And besides, I’ve asked my healthcare providers later as an adult to screen me, but it’s not exactly their specialty. Also that was back when I was a regular pot smoker and they told me I had to be off weed for a year before they would send me to a specialist.

                It’s been about a year since I’ve smoked weed at this point, but it’s also been longer than that since I’ve seen a doctor and I’m pretty sure they’ve already disenrolled me from their system. I also just don’t feel like going through the hassle anymore.

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                  Ah, I see. It is difficult to get a diagnosis as an adult. However, it really doesn’t matter unless you’re trying to apply for SSI or similarly in whatever country to reside in.

                  The part that helps is to find likeminded people online and in real life if you want. I have matrix group for autistic folks if you’re interested. It’s still small, but it’s slowly growing. It just helps to talk to people experiencing similar challenges.

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      Lol, this is what I tell my wife when she complains about one of our kids. “Guess they weren’t brought up right”.

      For real though…children are humans with independent thoughts and a world of influences. Blaming parents for anything kids do wrong is insane, as if they’re little automatons who have been programmed by parents.

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        In my family this would have resulted in one parent telling the other parent that “your daughter” wasn’t raised right. That’s all I’m saying.

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      For this sort of thing I’m not sure it matters. You either give a shit about this or it doesn’t even reach your attention. I’ve seen people raised by meticulous engineers that do this kind of crap. It drives those of us that care absolutely nutty as it would literally take effort for us to do something like this so we assume it’s done to piss us off but it usually is just something that some people don’t attend to at all. In their mind it’s just pizza in fridge, done, next thing.