I (a man with a penis) recently had my first time penetrating a vagina. I found it quite underwhelming, the sensations were there, I didn’t really struggle to orgasm (though the only position were I was able to get there was missionary where I control everything), but still I was disappointed by the sensations being 10 times weaker than what I feel by myself with a toy.
This didn’t make it a bad experience on the contrary. But the most fun part for me clearly was not the stimulation but rather the feeling of caressing her skin and her desire for me.
Am I the only one having such an experience?
I’d say that’s pretty normal. Most people will say their first time was underwhelming, it can be awkward with lots of fumbling. The feeling of penetration is only a small part of the sex, great sex is defined by being turned on with what’s happening, and connecting with the other person(s) in the horny section.